Tag: relationships

Conversation Starters – Understanding “Sociable”

In the Lumina work I do with teams, leaders and individuals, we look at 24 personality qualities. These are qualities that are a part of everyone’s personality. Qualities like “logical,” “cautious,” “spontaneous,” “sociable,” and others.  We each have all of these qualities, they are all in our capacity with different preferences, which makes us the complex, unique individuals we are.…

Your Personality in Sales: Platform or Prison?

As I work with sales leaders and teams to increase their self-awareness and improve their client relationships (and success!), I emphasize this point: in the sales environment, you have a choice. Your personality can either be a platform or a prison. It can either launch you into a positive client relationship built on trust, effective dialogues, and mutual success, or…

Living Through the Yellow Light: Understanding “Cautious”

In the Lumina work I do with teams, leaders and individuals, we look at 24 personality qualities. These are qualities that are a part of everyone’s personality. Qualities like “logical,” “cautious,” “spontaneous,” “sociable,” and others.  We each have all of these qualities, they are all in our capacity with different preferences, which makes us the complex, unique individuals we are.…

Measure for Measure: Think Before You Speak

In the Lumina work I do with teams, leaders and individuals, we look at 24 personality qualities. These are qualities that are a part of everyone’s personality. Qualities like “logical,” “cautious,” “spontaneous,” “sociable,” and others.  We each have all of these qualities, they are all in our capacity with different preferences, which makes us the complex, unique individuals we are.…

Managing Resistance – Align, Clarify, Assure

We’ve all experienced it. That point in the conversation with a client – maybe just after you’ve presented your solution – when the room goes a little quiet and you feel some push-back coming on. This is the point at which all the work you’ve done previously – understanding goals, challenges and needs, qualifying and diagnosing, presenting a client-specific solution…

Forget Smarter Not Harder, It’s Work Differently, Work Together

In the Lumina work I do with teams, leaders and individuals, we look at 24 personality qualities. These are qualities that are a part of everyone’s personality. Qualities like “logical,” “cautious,” “spontaneous,” “sociable,” and others.  We each have all of these qualities, they are all in our capacity with different preferences, which makes us the complex, unique individuals we are.…

Gaining Commitment—Presenting Your Client-Specific Solution

For the past several months I’ve been writing about best practices in the sales process.  I’ve talked about how to effectively prepare for and open the client meeting; how to increase potential and probability by thoroughly qualifying clients; diagnosing (before you prescribe!); providing predictive insight as you recommend an approach; and closing the meeting with mutual and specific steps. Now…

Understanding Logical – the Voice of Reason

In the Lumina work I do with teams, leaders and individuals, we look at 24 personality qualities. These are qualities that are a part of everyone’s personality. Qualities like “logical,” “cautious,” “spontaneous,” “sociable,” and others.  We each have all of these qualities, they are all in our capacity with different preferences, which makes us the complex, unique individuals we are.…

Wishbone or Backbone? Understanding Accommodating

In the Lumina work I do with teams, leaders and individuals, we look at 24 personality qualities. These are qualities that are a part of everyone’s personality. Qualities like “logical,” “cautious,” “spontaneous,” “sociable,” and others.  We each have all of these qualities, they are all in our capacity with different preferences, which makes us the complex, unique individuals we are. …

Discussion or Dialogue – Understanding the Trait “Tough”

In the Lumina work I do with teams, leaders and individuals, we look at 24 personality traits. These are traits that are a part of everyone’s personality. Traits like “logical,” “cautious,” “spontaneous,” “sociable,” and others.  We each have all of these traits, but to different degrees, which makes us the complex, unique individuals we are. This is the fifth in…