Category: Relationships

Wishbone or Backbone? Understanding Accommodating

In the Lumina work I do with teams, leaders and individuals, we look at 24 personality qualities. These are qualities that are a part of everyone’s personality. Qualities like “logical,” “cautious,” “spontaneous,” “sociable,” and others.  We each have all of these qualities, they are all in our capacity with different preferences, which makes us the complex, unique individuals we are. …

Linking and Leveraging Science and Art to the Craft of Selling

The other day someone asked me whether I thought selling is more science or art. My response was that it’s both. The science part is the process, which involves your IQ. The art part has to do with how beautiful you do something like building and maintaining relationships, which involves your EQ (emotional intelligence). Actively linking and leveraging both the…

Learning to Go with the Flow – Adaptable

In the Lumina work I do with teams, leaders and individuals, we look at 24 personality qualities. These are qualities that are a part of everyone’s personality. Qualities like “logical,” “cautious,” “spontaneous,” “sociable,” and others.  We each have all of these traits, but to different degrees, which makes us the complex, unique individuals we are. This is the seventh in…

Express Yourself – Understanding Demonstrative

In the Lumina work I do with teams, leaders and individuals, we look at 24 personality qualities. These are qualities that are a part of everyone’s personality. Qualities like “logical,” “cautious,” “spontaneous,” “sociable,” and others.  We each have all of these traits, but to different degrees, which makes us the complex, unique individuals we are. This is the sixth in…

Discussion or Dialogue – Understanding the Trait “Tough”

In the Lumina work I do with teams, leaders and individuals, we look at 24 personality traits. These are traits that are a part of everyone’s personality. Traits like “logical,” “cautious,” “spontaneous,” “sociable,” and others.  We each have all of these traits, but to different degrees, which makes us the complex, unique individuals we are. This is the fifth in…

Aligning Pots and Flowers for Revenue Growth

If you have ever seen small packets of seeds on display at your local nursery, you may have noticed that the front of the small packets does not have a picture of the seeds.  There is a picture of the flower or desired vegetable.  Why is that?  I am buying the seeds and yet the picture shows me the end…

Linking and Leveraging Science and Art in the Craft of Selling

The other day someone asked me whether I thought selling is more science or art. My response was that it’s both. The science part is the process, which involves your IQ. The art part has to do with how beautiful you do something like building and maintaining relationships, which involves your EQ (emotional intelligence). Actively linking and leveraging both the…

Pursuing Happiness Through Collaboration

This year marks 240 years since the United States Declaration of Independence was signed. In this historic document, Thomas Jefferson declared 3 inalienable rights: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness. I think a lot of us today might interpret “pursuit of happiness” as meaning happiness is something you chase after. I’d like to suggest that the pursuit of happiness…

Happy Holidays from the Brunel Group

We are coming into the home stretch of another year. As I look back over 2015, three words come to mind: Grateful, Proud, Excited. I am GRATEFUL to you, my loyal readers, for allowing me to share my thoughts, advice, and experience with you through my blog articles. My highest hope is that I’ve been able to inspire and enable…